| left me with hug bruises and never trusted man again | Our relationship is magic in every way possible from heaven, but me I still cannot accept that i am second wife, and how can I face my family and friends i know they are going to abandon me, beside feeling bad for his wife feeling guilty, even I secretly buy a lot of present for his wife and child and she don't know, and now he just told me that his wife pregnant again, he cried so much in fear i would leave him, again I fall apart, his family telling me to read Quran to help me cope with feeling sorry for myself and be patient , tried to leave him so many times but could not do it, because he is the man exactly I wanted him in my life or dreamed of all my life |
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| still cant believe how I accepted |
and our marriage continue and ongoing until now, he is still in his country and am still in Europe, I travel to see him every 2 or 3 month sometime 6 month.
8| my problem I learned after 8 month that he is married and have 2 years old son too | Am 35 years old, single mother who escaped from oppression of my country origin with just few hour born baby, spend my whole life looking after my son and studding and finished university all by myself alone when I was only 16 , am very successful in my life, but forgot about myself and never wanted a man in my life again after what i been through with my ex-husband let's say it was forced marriage when i was only 13 |
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| Also will tell his wife after we have a child so no one can separate us after, especially her family won't be able to ask divorcing me after child | All his family knows about me because when I visiting him we go to his family house, only his wife don't know and of course my family which i don't know how to tell them or even tell my friends, we both scared , me from my family and friends and him from his wife and her family also they might take away his son which he loves so much |
First I could not believe myself went to server depression, and then accepted, still don't know how I accepted as I am very much against polygamy so my family back in my country origin.
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